Due to their individual nature and experience, cats don't always respond favorably to petting or feeding. If a new four-legged resident has arrived in your home, don't rush to overwhelm them with attention and affection. While they're adjusting to their new surroundings, it's important to begin establishing friendly bonds with them on the right foot.
Quiet voice and high notes
When talking to your pet, avoid using a low voice, as cats perceive it as a sign of aggression. Communicate with them only in high pitches. Ensure your voice remains quiet and calm throughout the conversation, free of any anxious overtones.
Try to imitate the affectionate sounds cats use themselves—something like a quiet, short "meow" or "mee-e-e-p." If you're not very good at imitating cat phrases, and your cat confirms this with a wary look, stop trying and continue speaking to them in your own language.
Very slow blinking
The second important factor when interacting with cats is gaze. Avoid looking directly at your pet; this is perceived negatively and makes them feel uncomfortable. Instead, blink slowly while looking at your cat, as you've seen them do the same. This signifies a trusting bond has been established between the two. And if your pet looks at you this way, be sure to return the gaze; this will help strengthen the budding friendship.
An outstretched hand
Don't rush to pet your cat until it's gotten to know you and sees you as a potential threat. Instead, slowly extend your hand toward your pet so it can sniff it and get to know the new person. If it wants affection, it will make the first move.
It's important to remember that cats are independent animals and can't be forced to cuddle or tolerate forced affection. Give them affection through petting only when you notice they want it. Then you'll feel their gratitude in the form of gentle nudges or even licks.
You should also avoid making sudden movements near your pet, as they trigger an instinct that prompts it to flee from a larger predator.
Delicious
Even in ancient times, treats were a surefire way to foster a sense of affection in cats. Back then, table scraps were the only treats given. Since most human food is unsuitable for cats due to digestive issues, they should only be fed treats specifically made for this purpose.
To help your cat see you as a friend, it's important to be patient. Control your outbursts of affection, maintain personal boundaries, and don't forget to give your pet treats.
